August 25, 2008

Dejunkin

I really believe in being thrifty. I love a good garage sale (especially when I lived in Spokane) and love thrift stores (the best I saw were in Colorado Springs), ebay or any other ways to save. I like to get and give a good deal. It feels great to let go of things that I will not use. I would even say it is theraputic. It is just like leaving behind emotional baggage (in therapy) and having new, clean space to think.

My mother is a horder and so is Günter's. Günter himself has the tendancy keep things (even empty boxes of things he buys...) so I am up against some tendencies that are hard to fight. Because I lived in a home that was somewhat junky, I try really hard to get rid of things as I go. It is hard because of my thriftiness.

I sometimes think I may need or want it in the future, so I should hang onto it. But you know where that leads. Anyhow, I have been doing great at dejunking the kids rooms and clothes (remember THAT post and pictures?). I give away most of the clothes to church friends.

My good friend (that is moving to Australia--boo hoo) had to get rid of things in her house and told me about two places here to get rid of things. There is a yahoo group called freecycle ramstein where you can post things you want to give away and people email back and take it. Also I discovered RamsteinYardSale (which is in rival with ebay in some ways and they can set up one in any location) . You post a picture and list a price and people email you, then you arrange when and where to get it to them. If you link to that site you can see all the stuff I listed. It really got me going.

It is a pain to take the pictures, resize and then post it, but nice to see things that have been sitting around house make some money. All the good stuff went fast and now the other things probably won't go so I will then advertise them with my church and with the freecycle to see if anyone wants them before I give it to the thrift store.

It is interesting the emotional reaction I have to all this. I was excited, then pushed myself to dig even more. I drug things down from the attic this evening and will post them tomorrow.

The kids had mixed feelings. Niki was very upset and said that he won't have any toys. We have kept Jenna from the room with all the stuff because I know what her reaction will be!

While I was up in the attic the kids came up and found new toys to have. It was like Christmas all over again. All my play therapy toys came out. I knew all the toys so well from my hour and hours of play with other people's kids and now I have kids of my own! I thrill came over me as I thought back to those years where I had this ache in my heart because I wanted kids and didn't have them.

Now my doll houses are being played with Jenna and Kaye's wooden doll house is now used as a garage for Niki's cars.

How blessed I am to have these kids and to realize my dream. I often forget this in the bustle of everyday life.

My house, heart and soul is getting dejunked!

Posted by Krista at August 25, 2008 07:35 PM
Comments

That's so sweet! And, boy, do I know what you mean about horders! Gary and Laura are the worst. The other day I went through Laura's room and got rid of things that she's been hording. She hasn't missed anything as of yet. I'm wondering what I'll say when she does. Maybe I'll act innocent. Lol. Good luck with everything.

Posted by: Jeni at August 25, 2008 11:32 PM

I am glad that you are getting things cleaned out, it is such a great feeling

Posted by: Christy Robertson at August 26, 2008 09:03 AM

I agree! Dejunking is soooo freeing! (I've been cleaning out my craft room.) Thanks for those sites. I'm going to check them out. They could be very useful in lightening our move next summer!

Posted by: Angi at August 26, 2008 05:54 PM

We must be on the same wave length. I have items I want to sell but haven't researched out how to do it, so thanks to you I now have more resources! Great post by the way, love that you found treasures for your children. My mom is holding onto my childhood toys, which my siblings back home can use with their children, but because we are "gypsies" it doesn't work for us. Oh, well. Good luck with the project!

Posted by: Leslie at August 26, 2008 08:37 PM

I am impressed!! I am not too bad about hoarding--especially after having moved frequently in recent years. However, I really need to go through my own closet. Pathetically, if I got rid of everything that doesn't fit well and is more than ten years old... I would probably only have about 1/3 of my clothes left. LAME!! I hang onto that stuff, but my reality is that I wear a v-neck t-shirt and jeans/capris about 90 percent of the time.

Posted by: Anna at August 26, 2008 10:08 PM

Dejunking is a good feeling! It is a ton of work though! A lot of my "get rid of stuff" sits in my garage for months until I make the time to take it to Goodwill. I'm not a Thrift Store person (I think it's the smell that turns me away), but I'm not too much of a yard saler either - I guess I haven't found too many great bargains to make me feel like it is worth the time? But in some ways I wish I was into it, so I could save a bunch of $$$!!!!

Posted by: Kari at August 27, 2008 05:47 AM

You are inspiring to get back to dejunking and organizing in prepartion for our move next summer (hopefully back to GERMANY!!). Being in the military and moving often is slowly helping me learn to get rid of things. Yes, I am also a "collecter".

Posted by: Marnie at August 27, 2008 05:39 PM

You know, that was one of the unexpected byproducts of the tornado we went through - the feeling of liberation we got from losing all the stuff we had accumulated. Although I don't recommend getting rid of it that way. LOL But yeah, it is definitely time for us to dejunk our house so I don't feel so overwhelmed about the thought of general cleaning. Too much crap...probably one of the reasons I've been feeling down too.

Posted by: Missy at August 27, 2008 09:16 PM

Interesting websites and what a great thing for that area! We are doing the same with the help of a 20 ft dumpster being rented from the city. I can hardly wait to walk outside and toss the stuff over the top! We may get moved in yet!

Posted by: Dana at August 28, 2008 03:46 AM